Erotica sites, and frankly this site in particular, is like a minefield that tests your determination. XXX That probably also means missing out on potential readers. 1. Even just voting on the occasional story is a good start to becoming more active on this site. Yes, you’re writing for free, but this is something you elected to do of your own free will. They love to feel a connection with their audiences. I have an Asian-American friend that writes erotica in her spare time, but she steers clear of this site because a few too many people and the way they write Asian characters makes her feel uncomfortable and unwelcome, the way they write about ‘slanted eyes’ and ‘yellow skin’ every chapter, and in some authors’ cases, every time they bring up Asian characters. It is incredibly easy for newcomer writers to trick themselves into thinking they’re altruistic and the epitome of kindness when they’re writing
